Advice and Tips
MoonFire here. Anyway, we've all been bullied. Lots of people have, no matter what race, gender, or age, people get bullied and need help with it. On this page, we have thought of some common situations and what you should do about it. If you are in a different type of situation, you should go to the blog and tell us about it. Anyway, here is the advice.
You are at school. Everday, the same kid comes up to you demanding lunch money. What should you do?
First of all, you should say "no" to the bully. If they make any attempt to harm you after this, go and tell an adult. If the adult doesn't help, go to another adult, preferably an adult with more power. Hopefully, they will do something about it. If not, tell your parents. Either way, do not give in to the bully.
You are at karate practice. You forgot your sparring gear. You just so happen to be paired up with your enemy. Before you are ready, they kick you. Really hard. You try to get up, but they just push you back down. Nobody can see because they are busy doing what they are doing. What should you do?
This is a very serious situation. The first thing you should do is to call for help. Then if you are not hurt badly, try to get away from the person that is hurting you and tell and instructor. If you are hurt so bad that you cannot escape, keep calling for help. Do not stop until help comes.
You are on a computer game with your friends, when suddenly another player starts saying mean things. Take this conversation as an example.
crazykid3000- hey guys!
emoelephant101- hey! whats up?
crazykid3000- nothing much.
imabronandepic- so, where wer u?
crazykid3000- homework. and my parents said no games until i was done.
dajedimaster- yeah. it was so hard! i barely made it on.
kidonfire12- so, did you finish the math?
emoelephant101- i didnt have time. algebra is so hard!
kidonfire12- i agree. how r we susposed to figure out 5x*23y=341?
dajedimaster- anyway, did u guys watch the latest episode of My Little Pony last nite?
sirspamalotthetroll- u guys watch that ****? U r such FREAKS!
crazykid3000- hey! stop making fun of my friends!
sirspamalotthetroll- u are such a *****!
imabronandepic- go away. NOW! or ill report u to the site for cussing!
sirspamalotthetroll- if u do ill track u down and u better beware!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
crazykid3000- c'mon, guys. lets go.
What do you do?
Well, report this player to the site for swearing. Don't let them get away with it. If they keep bugging you, tell a parent. Don't let it go too far. Do not let the guy being mean to you get away with it.
Say you have a friend who works for the school newpaper. You trust her, and you tell her your biggest secret. The next week, kids in the hallway are pointing at you and laughing. You ask another kid why, and they give yuo a copy of the school newspaper. On the front page, there is a picture of you and in large letters it says: REVEALED! GOSSIP RUMOR OF THE YEAR IS CONFIRMED! And your biggest secret is on the page. This was written by your best friend. What do you do?
So, you should confront your friend. If the gossip continues, tell and adult.
You are at school. Everday, the same kid comes up to you demanding lunch money. What should you do?
First of all, you should say "no" to the bully. If they make any attempt to harm you after this, go and tell an adult. If the adult doesn't help, go to another adult, preferably an adult with more power. Hopefully, they will do something about it. If not, tell your parents. Either way, do not give in to the bully.
You are at karate practice. You forgot your sparring gear. You just so happen to be paired up with your enemy. Before you are ready, they kick you. Really hard. You try to get up, but they just push you back down. Nobody can see because they are busy doing what they are doing. What should you do?
This is a very serious situation. The first thing you should do is to call for help. Then if you are not hurt badly, try to get away from the person that is hurting you and tell and instructor. If you are hurt so bad that you cannot escape, keep calling for help. Do not stop until help comes.
You are on a computer game with your friends, when suddenly another player starts saying mean things. Take this conversation as an example.
crazykid3000- hey guys!
emoelephant101- hey! whats up?
crazykid3000- nothing much.
imabronandepic- so, where wer u?
crazykid3000- homework. and my parents said no games until i was done.
dajedimaster- yeah. it was so hard! i barely made it on.
kidonfire12- so, did you finish the math?
emoelephant101- i didnt have time. algebra is so hard!
kidonfire12- i agree. how r we susposed to figure out 5x*23y=341?
dajedimaster- anyway, did u guys watch the latest episode of My Little Pony last nite?
sirspamalotthetroll- u guys watch that ****? U r such FREAKS!
crazykid3000- hey! stop making fun of my friends!
sirspamalotthetroll- u are such a *****!
imabronandepic- go away. NOW! or ill report u to the site for cussing!
sirspamalotthetroll- if u do ill track u down and u better beware!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
crazykid3000- c'mon, guys. lets go.
What do you do?
Well, report this player to the site for swearing. Don't let them get away with it. If they keep bugging you, tell a parent. Don't let it go too far. Do not let the guy being mean to you get away with it.
Say you have a friend who works for the school newpaper. You trust her, and you tell her your biggest secret. The next week, kids in the hallway are pointing at you and laughing. You ask another kid why, and they give yuo a copy of the school newspaper. On the front page, there is a picture of you and in large letters it says: REVEALED! GOSSIP RUMOR OF THE YEAR IS CONFIRMED! And your biggest secret is on the page. This was written by your best friend. What do you do?
So, you should confront your friend. If the gossip continues, tell and adult.
Advice For Bullies
Hi! Its BlackJack (again), and now I'm giving advice to bullies! I never felt good about myself, but I would always follow the rule 'treat people the way you wan't to be treated' and I think bullies should too. Also I suggest watching the new My Little Pony Friendship is Magic, it has made bullies nicer (see below) and it is actually really good for a kids show.
Also if you feel angry at somebody talk it out with them, do NOT beat the person up! It does not make you cool, it does not make you popular for a good reason. It makes YOU the person NOBODY likes. If you need help stopping talk to a guidance or ask on the blog, or directly to us in the HELP US IMPROVE tab.
Also if you feel angry at somebody talk it out with them, do NOT beat the person up! It does not make you cool, it does not make you popular for a good reason. It makes YOU the person NOBODY likes. If you need help stopping talk to a guidance or ask on the blog, or directly to us in the HELP US IMPROVE tab.
Don't do this
MoonFire back. I have listed some ways NOT to handle a bullying situation.
1. Violence- You will most likely end up in trouble. I can speak from experience. This picture is another example of what not to do.
1. Violence- You will most likely end up in trouble. I can speak from experience. This picture is another example of what not to do.
2. Hurt their feelings- Don't try to hurt the bully's feelings. Even though they are the one being mean, and no doubt will need to be punished, they may have a hard home life or be abused by their parents. They may think that the only solution to anything is violence.
3. Give in- Don't give in to the bully. Be strong, giving in will most likely tell them that they can push you around. This will encourage them to harm you.